Jeff:
Take a look at this little app I just unconvered:
http://www.express-soft.com/mailmate/clickyes.html
This looks like a promising "band-aid" for most people. My first test was great. Of course, one must be certain that they are running fully up-to-date e-mail-scanning anti-virus software when "defeating" this security measure!
There's some good info there for developers. Perhaps it's something for you to consider working with.
Another suggestion:
I would really like to have SpamX automatically delete all processed items without asking me for a confirmation each time. It would be a very nice to have that option.
Cheers!